我多希望所有的reborn都不会太迟
2010-04-10 by 嘉瑜, Category: 心情杂事, 1 Comment 14次浏览
我发现，已经写不出所谓“心情”了，
而我曾经是个忠实的“青春伤痕派”。
又有人和我聊起所谓“爱情”了，
我已经腻了这个伪命题。
身边的同事已经有三位在准备婚礼了，
似乎还有两位同事在嗳昧，
有位刚刚诞下宝宝的幸福妈咪，
甚至还有位在美国的同学突然在MSN上和我说 –
“my babe and my family are so precious to me”
姐姐一家看起来似乎越来越幸福。
我记得有部很温馨的电影，名叫《真爱无敌》
这世界上每个角落都有爱。
我已经开始正视，
我心中那个所谓的、
甚至带了心理性扭曲的
对“完美爱情”的定义，
永远不可能真正存在。
有些东西，我确定我现在不需要，
有些东西，我很确定的希望它能足够完满。
过去我给它的时间太少，
如今，是到了需要我用青春作为承载的时候了。
再一次，
我懂得这是个真理 –
人生总有些学分，你必须得去修完，
Sooner or later
我多希望所有的reborn都不会太迟。
你的，我的。
mic on October 8th, 2010
Do you really believe in “reborn”?
“reborn”是个迷，at least to me, it is not a proven one.
我身边有好几位哥们三十几了，至今没遇到合适的。硬件条件不用说了，而且一点也不花心，可就是没缘份遇到相互欣赏的。前几天我在上海时，其中一个还跟我讲，他刚算过命（800元一次），先生说了，他会在明年年初就结婚。。。我真为他捏把汗！真渴望他成功！But unfortunately, he is still single and available now.这不，从马来西亚回来，说不定又半夜给我打电话，说他那点事儿：自己年轻时太重事业啊、没太关注XX啊whatever…
Amazingly, right now, like those who are older and still single, he is willing to believe any religion only if this can bring him his another part!
Don’t be like him! Please be yourself as you addressed in your tittle! The definition of love is whatever you decide.
The pressure arround you might be a nonsense noise when you’ve got a 3rd layer inception where you are the one deciding your happiness and true love meaning and more importantly the others are wrong.You have been right as always!
One thing I want to point out is that you don’t have to suffer from what your peers received because you cannot duplicate as they did or encountered.
Cheers!
mic